a mother’s dilemma

When Ashley was going in and out of the hospital recently, she spent her time munching on koko crunch (provided by the hospital) and watching tv.ย  Her favourite is the Disney Channel.ย  Guess which show kept playing over and over again?

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Yup…the High School Musical.

Ashley became hooked and since she watched this show so many times, I even dreamt about it one night ๐Ÿ˜›ย  Then she asked for a HSM school bag for next year and we got one for her during Parkson’s clearance sales – only rm30 ๐Ÿ™‚

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My dilemma started yesterday.

I didn’t really know how much she loves HSM until she showed me this…..

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a love letter to……..

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Troy (the lead actor aka Zac Efron).ย  She even put it in an envelope and asked me to send it out to him.ย  I was shocked!ย  Writing a love letter? Where did she learn that from?ย  She kept telling me that she likes him, he is her friend, etc.ย  Then she asked me to go to the US with her to find Troy.ย  Where did she learn all these from?ย  Did I tell you that she’s only 5?ย  *pulls hair*ย ย  I thought I would deal with problems like friendships in school,ย homework, eczema, what clothes to wear, etc….but definitely NOT this.ย ย  I don’t find this cute at all. I am worried andย  Iย  really don’t know what to do.ย  I should have stopped her from watching such dramas ๐Ÿ™

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28 Responses to a mother’s dilemma

  1. Charmaine says:

    LOL…how cute! Her first crush.. sweet! Did you post the letter?

    no i didn’t ๐Ÿ™‚ hope she’ll forget about this very soon.

  2. Mummy Gwen says:

    I’m speechless. HSM has such a big influence on a 5 year old girl..wow. Yeah..I’m wondering where Ashley learn how to write love letter too..hehe.

  3. ChloeMummy says:

    I also don’t anticipate such “problems” at this age… at least not until 10 years later haha. Ashley is too matured for her age! She doesn’t watch Playhouse Disney anymore?

    she does watch Playhouse Disney and her fav is Pororo the Little Penguin. She switches between Playhouse Disney and Disney Channel ๐Ÿ™

  4. Angeline says:

    Wow, Ashley likes him! Maybe she admired Troy!

  5. Haha, I guess she is just temporary influenced by HSM.

  6. Hayley says:

    LOL, a love letter to Troy…
    Well, Zac Efron is really some teenage girls’ idol, I think Ashley is one of his youngest fan ๐Ÿ˜‰

  7. goldflower86 says:

    heheh. i think it will pass. my 4y.o cousin always said she want to marry handsome guy and have babies. its normal i think. hehe

    i certainly hope it will pass very soon ๐Ÿ™‚

  8. Hahaha.. Writing a love letter at 5? I thought only teens love HSM.

  9. joshua's mummy says:

    Wow, she’s so adult, but so cute! Hahahahaha

  10. rachel says:

    Watching it often is ok. like sometimes how we watch a movie again n again. But to start writing letter n obsess like asking u to bring her to find him…TOO MUCH jor. I’m not familiar with HSM. Was there love scenes in the movie?

    yes there’s a love scene / a kissing scene between the lead actor/actress but i didn’t know a 5 year old knows what that is all about ๐Ÿ™ she loves watching HSM because it’s full of singing / dancing scenes.

  11. MK mummy says:

    Ashley is mature for her age leh.. but then this Zac Efron, he is one good looking man…I dont blame Ashley.. she has great taste.. ๐Ÿ™‚

    LOL!

  12. oh my gawdddd !!! sorry… I can’t help laughing my butt off .. altho’ it’s dilemma to you.. LOL !! Ash is so cute !! You’d better send Cruz to the rescue.. get Ashley back to planet Earth !

    she doesn’t seem to like boys her age..i mean not to that extent ๐Ÿ™‚

  13. Krystal says:

    hahaha…sorry can’t help laughing :p Barb, your daughter is growing up fast and she’s one pretty girl – watch her out!

    thanks for your compliments, Krystal. She is growing way too fast.

  14. yvonne says:

    Hahaha! At such young age she’s already writing letter to her idol. No wonder you are in dilemma. I have yet to experience this with Avery – she has idols but not until the extend of writing love letter.

    Btw, Zac Efron is indeed very handsome, kekeke…. I like my son to grow up as smart as him :p

    little chowder is going to break a lot of hearts later on ๐Ÿ™‚

  15. Clairity says:

    Kids grow up too fast these days. HSM is about teens, that’s a very different age group. When my kids were younger, certain movies/series were off-limits to them, and for certain other movies, had no choice but to enforce parental guidance. Hopefully she will forget Zac soon, he’s much too old for her LOL.

    i hope so too. i’ll be keeping a close eye on what she watches from now onwards ๐Ÿ™‚

  16. sheohyan says:

    Barb, I think you no need to worry. I can be the role model of idoling celebrity at young age. I was like that when I was as young as Ashley. I admired the young and handsome looking actors or singers. I tell ya! I was only into a relationship at age of 24. I had no puppy love before age 24, all because I admired Leon Lai, and I benchmarked Leon Lai to all other guys that I knew. Of course all failed in term of height, appearance and charm looking, if to compare to Leon Lai. Only at age of 24, i lower down my standard a bit because I was a bit desparate already. lol!

    LOL! You are too funny. Do yr girls admire anyone now? So, you lowered yr standards a bit eh? hahahahahahhahaha

  17. BoeyJoey says:

    oh dear oh dear… i think HQ can be good friends with Ashley. HQ wants to go China because he likes the little girl in the Beijing Olympics MTV (the first singer)! He kept saying that she’s “the girl” for him, and he wants to marry her!

    And QQ? Wang Li Hom!

    *I’m so dead*

    oh man…so this is normal for kids nowadays? well, HQ has good taste. The girl is really cute ๐Ÿ˜€ Oh, I love Li Hom too!…hahahahahhahaha

  18. Shirley Loo says:

    wow wow wow…kids nowadays really can go beyond our imagination eh??? hope u can handle her ‘little request’ there Barb ๐Ÿ˜‰ she sure learns frm the drama itself lah, no worry…just hope she will get bored with it fast hehehe….

  19. Angie says:

    she’s my clan or what?@___@ I love Boys before flowers (for 2 years now) like Ashley loves HSM. A bit crazy ya? But obsession is hard to go away lol ha ha ha I put lotsa money for my addiction in BBF, I think you’ll get through the same with Ashley ha ha ha….==”
    Oh, actually you can really post that letter if you want LOL

  20. ipohgal says:

    Don’t worry, mommy. Most probably this is a passing phase and before year’s end, she will forget all about him when X’mas gifts comes along!

  21. lena says:

    this is really early for a crush on someone..but if it’s not too much, i think it’s okay..she should have the right to express her feelings..err..( i’m scratching head already )

    WF – why are you scratching your head? LOL! what would you do if one of your girls were to do this? i must ask WL how she deals with it…kakakakaka

  22. jazzmint says:

    LOL..maybe you want to start telling her that they are not so near and they are just actors ๐Ÿ™‚

  23. Ann says:

    LOL…yeah, they grow up so fast these days. And these shows don’t really help. I guess you also never expected. Thanks for the warning.

    Hopefully its just puppy love and it will pass. Maybe she can learn about acting and how different it is from normal life.

  24. caroline says:

    Oh dear …. I totally didn’t anticipated that for kids their age at all! I think it’s ok but just way too ‘early’ for a mom’s point of view. I can still remember that at the age of 5, I am still a blur blur little girl who doesn’t know what love is beside “I don’t want to friend you” stuff, hahahaha. Kids nowadays are really canggih eh and I guess that’s a norm for kids nowadays so I better prepared myself for all these too ๐Ÿ™‚

  25. Annie Q says:

    LOL!!!!!!!! This is so cute and funny!!!

    Aiyo…now my future daughter in law fall in love with another boy already? *sob sob sob*

    You know what, not only Ashley, Cruz also into HSM!! Even can tell me wildcat..i ask him what is wildcat..he said HSM la, you don’t know ar? *faint*

  26. chinnee says:

    at preschool age?? Wahhh….surely mummy very worry by now

  27. kerry says:

    I should be thankful that the girls are still very much into Angelina Ballerina & Chloe’s Closet at this moment as they have yet discovered Disney channel.

    However both girls are very into chinese drama exp those with fighting scenes. *slaps head*

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