what i don’t need …

are all the “you-friend-me-i-don’t-friend-you-because-you-are-not-a-real-friend-and-you-are-using-me-for-favours” or you-don’t-friend-me-because-you-get-mad-that-i-don’t-have-time-for-you or i-friend-you-you-don’t-friend-me-because-you-are-jealous-of-me crap.  Please, don’t think too much.  Things are not what you think they are.  Don’t flatter yourself, ok.  To me, it’s really simple.  If you can get along well with someone, then cherish it.  If not, just get over it and MOVE ON.  I think you will be happier if you do that.  There is no need to go on and on about this.  Don’t hold grudges.  Enough drama already.  The only dramas I am interested in are TVB dramas 🙂

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21 Responses to what i don’t need …

  1. jasmine says:

    haha yes..TVB drama please 😉

  2. ipohgal says:

    Yeah Barb, life is a journey, keep what is useful and throw away what is not!

  3. Annie Q says:

    Yes yes yes..well said! Let’s enjoy our TVB dramas!! Cheers!

  4. mumsgather says:

    I want TVB Dramas too not the other kind. lol.

  5. Adrine says:

    Agree!!! No time to layan all that.

  6. Kiddothings says:

    Good one Barb! 🙂 Reminded me of when I was in Primary school. We used to say “I don’t friend you” alot then 🙂

  7. yvonne says:

    Agree! I usually filter out these friends. Don’t want them to bother my life. Lucky I’ve got more nice than drama-queen ones.

    But my girl always come home and tells me, “This friend say don’t want to friend me already. That friend say, blah, blah, blah”.

  8. sounds so much like Amber.. she’ll come telling me.. this friend that.. and this friend that… nothing goes in my head.. i tell her at the end of the day.. friends who BULLY you and undermine you are not important, some ppl are really immatured (well, kids are) and efntd. move on.. remove toxic friends..

    thank god for friends like you and you.. makes my day, everyday 😀

  9. Kitty says:

    Agreed with you! I also like TVB dramas!

  10. mom2ashley says:

    SUPER LIKE this! LOL!

  11. A line from the TVB drama by actor lai yew cheung, “how many 10 years we have in life” is very true. Live our life and appreciate it.

  12. wenn says:

    true..be happy and live happily..

  13. BoeyJoey says:

    well said, Barb! our heads are already so full with kids, work, family, and other nice happy things that we want to fill it with! bye bye to petty stuffs! 🙂

  14. sheohyan says:

    I remember I posted a comment this morning to tell you that I like your qoute and saying. But, why I can’t find my own comment?

    • Mommy to Chumsy says:

      oh very strange Sheoh Yan. I also saw your comment earlier. Don’t know what happened to it 🙁

      • sheohyan says:

        I come back here again and again, as I really like what you said here. Recently there is also some dramas caused by my girl friend’s jealousy. Sigh….

        • barbara says:

          ahhh…glad you like this. so you are also facing the same thing? well in my case, it’s not jealousy. oh..maybe this person thinks i’m jealous of her and all sort of things which she assumes i am. all i want to say is that..just stop it. stop accusing. this is too childish. just move on and be happy because i have 🙂 so Sheoh Yan, don’t bother. as long as your conscience is clear, just let them be 🙂

  15. sasha says:

    i read from pinterest…some ppl are like dark clouds. when they are gone, the world seems brighter. 🙂

  16. Carolyn says:

    Yes, life is full of drama that we don’t need. Ignorance is bliss. Sticking to tvb drama is better than that..;)

  17. Mamapumpkin says:

    Now I really don’t want to friend you any more!

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