Know what I have been looking for? The Rotan, of course. When we moved into the house, I forgot where I kept it. I know I brought it over but just couldn’t remember where it was. I finally saw it inside the cupboard when I was looking for some medication a few days ago. Finding the cane was very timely as lil missy has been extremely naughty lately. I know I have bought the cane for a few months already but I’ve only used it to whack the sofa or waved it around like a lunatic.
So, one day last week, I smacked her with the cane for the first time. I lost my cool when she refused to take her bath and threw tantrums by rolling on the floor. I whacked her leg once and for a moment, she was shocked. Then she started to bawl when the pain seeps in. She kept saying “pain pain” and of course it pains my heart too *sniff*. I have tried to talk to her nicely, explained to her what is wrong but to no avail. When I put her in the naughty corner, she would start to sing or dance and even giggled because she thought it’s real funny *rolls eye* So the last resort is to use the cane. Anyway, since that day, she is really afraid of the cane eventhough she still defies me. Whenever I take out the cane, she would say NOOOOOO and then quickly do as I told before I smack her *shake head*.
p/s: I even bought another Rotan and put it upstairs 
wah..good tool sometimes, i use that oso when i’m at wits end
Can send one or not..?? no cane in Canada.
hahaha … bought a spare rotan. ya, no cane in america … got feather duster but rotan is much better. i grew up with my mom having one of those in the house.
breaks my heart imagining ashley goes ‘pain! pain!’…
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Hehe..you wait..later she will hide the rotan(s) from you.
Muahahahah….. that’s my best weapon too, against my kids. Though I don’t hit them all the time, the sight of it scares them LOL!
ouch!!! i still haven’t have the heart to go buy the rotan!!! hehehe
Need to have one standby- just in case
u remind me last week i also lose my cool and beat Fearles on the hand.
I feel so heart pain when i see him cry. *sigh*
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Always the case. Pain on their legs, even more painful in mummy’s heart!
have not bought one. Perhaps I shld get one just in case. You know the terrible 2 phase sometimes, is driving me crazy.
we also have one which we use as last resort…we try to avoid if possible
haha, it seems like a lot of mommies r using it! me too when it comes to the last resort, but now seldom edi ler..more like using it to scare my kids.. angrily finding my cane snd stomping my feet angrily to scare them!! hehe
yes, you sure have (found it)!!
alamak…rotan? spare cute lil Ashley ok?
Huh rotan for your sweet princess? No lah. Mayb try myway..My hub and me used to use cane for our naughty twin boys and nvr on his precious little girls(Double std hoh?)But we make the girls stand corner. The impact was go great that I managed to video my Juliana appying the same tactic trying to immitate our style on her Barbie doll. Check out my post on this. BTW my convo pics are up as per your request.